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Žao mi je što nisam ranije ovo potražila kad se govorilo na tu temu u prethodnim "serijama" priče o silovanju, glumcima itd., evo nešto o tome koji je procenat lažnih prijava za silovanje:
https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs ... s/13281852
Dr Fileborn said it's a "huge misconception" that false reports are common, and that myth is likely rooted in misogyny, sexism, and historical stereotypes about womens' trustworthiness in the criminal justice system.
"If you're concerned about the possibility of someone you know making an allegation against you, maybe it's actually an opportunity to reflect on your own sexual practices and know how you negotiate consent with partners," she said.
Dr Seidler encouraged men who were grappling with this at the moment to talk it through openly with mates or a therapist, and to accept you might not know all the answers, or could even be in the wrong.
He said the vast majority of men don't perpetrate sexual violence, but that there were many who didn't understand what they've done was problematic. And that comes down to the fact these conversations are still taboo.
"Men need to talk to other men about this stuff, and we need to not shame one another about responding and questioning and asking where the lines are," he said.
Dr Seidler said young men should avoid withdrawing to online forums, but instead be more open about sharing their concerns.
What he didn't want to see was people - particularly young men - becoming more distant, fearful, angry and violent. He, and other experts, are less worried about middle-aged men (who are happy to jump on Twitter and talk about how they feel); it's younger men they're concerned about, who might disappear into the secluded and insular worlds of reddit threads and forums.
And if men are still worried about false allegations of rape, despite the stats, he wondered why they were empathising more with the perpetrator, than the victim.
"Why don't we see it from the victim's perspective and try to get in their shoes and empathise, rather than trying to get in the perpetrator's shoes constantly?" he said.
"This isn't something that you're going to get caught out on, by doing the right thing and then getting thrown under the bus by accident. That's not how this works."
