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Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by Aminaaa » 27/07/2011 15:38

Zanima me da li muškarac zaista voli svoju partnerku, iako joj to ne govori, da li to zaista osjeća. Da li je to manjak samopouzdanja, il´ pak ljubavi?!


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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by Ghost_Rider_XXX » 27/07/2011 15:41

O tome smo milion puta promuhabetili na ovom mjestu.

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by baby24 » 27/07/2011 15:46

ma voli te, samo se pravi, eee :dance: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by Henry Chinaski » 27/07/2011 15:49

Kad su zaljubljeni, muškarcima se zaveže jezik. :mrgreen:

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by mrtva kokoš » 27/07/2011 15:51

htjedoh da odg. ali kad sam vido avatar odustao sam :mrgreen:

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by zelenashica » 27/07/2011 15:53

Aminaaa wrote:Zanima me da li muškarac zaista voli svoju partnerku, iako joj to ne govori, da li to zaista osjeća. Da li je to manjak samopouzdanja, il´ pak ljubavi?!

I mene to zanima,...pratim temu 8-)

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by illuminated » 27/07/2011 15:55

postoje ljudi koji to govore, postoje ljudi koji to ne govore, isto tako postoje osobe kojima to nista ne znaci kada im neko kaze, i one koje to moraju da cuju.

psiholog i konsultant sa 30 godina bracnog savjetovanja je to sazeo u tzv 5 jezika ljubavi...a to su:
Words of Affirmation

Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.
Quality Time

In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
Receiving Gifts

Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.
Acts of Service

Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
Physical Touch

This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.


svakome od nas je vazno nesto od ovoga..nekome manje nekome vise, nekome nikako.

za uspjesnu vezu je potrebno da partneri znaju jezik onoga drugog.
recimo npr, nekome su vazni pokloni. s druge strane postoje osobe koje se cak i uvrijede ili im poklon ne znaci nista....itd...

ako ti je vazno da cujes "volim te..." ...posalji link na ovu knjigu svom partneru...pa razgovarajte o tome kako zelite da primate i da dajete ljubav....bice zanimljivo... :wink:

jedno je sigurno, ako te voli pokusace da govori tvoj jezik ljubavi i obratno....

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/
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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by Ghost_Rider_XXX » 27/07/2011 15:55

zelenashica wrote:
Aminaaa wrote:Zanima me da li muškarac zaista voli svoju partnerku, iako joj to ne govori, da li to zaista osjeća. Da li je to manjak samopouzdanja, il´ pak ljubavi?!

I mene to zanima,...pratim temu 8-)


Jel vama bitnije kako se on ponaša, ili šta priča?

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by Attitude » 27/07/2011 15:56

vala meni se mora to rec makar 3 put na dan :D
i ja govorim - sto jest jest...al fino je i cut :)

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Post by zelenashica » 27/07/2011 15:57

Ghost_Rider_XXX wrote:
zelenashica wrote:
Aminaaa wrote:Zanima me da li muškarac zaista voli svoju partnerku, iako joj to ne govori, da li to zaista osjeća. Da li je to manjak samopouzdanja, il´ pak ljubavi?!

I mene to zanima,...pratim temu 8-)


Jel vama bitnije kako se on ponaša, ili šta priča?

Vidis tu je kvaka....ja haman nisam znala procitati ponasanje,.... :roll:

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by BJB » 27/07/2011 15:58

Jok, nit te kad volio, samo hoce djidji-midji. :D

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Post by zelenashica » 27/07/2011 15:59

BJB wrote:Jok, nit te kad volio, samo hoce djidji-midji. :D

Nisu svi isti.

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by Ghost_Rider_XXX » 27/07/2011 16:05

zelenashica wrote:Vidis tu je kvaka....ja haman nisam znala procitati ponasanje,.... :roll:


Pa Tito moj mili, nije partija pokera pa da pratiš jel blefira ili ne i jel' ima samo par ili flash. Kad te neko istinski voli ne mora ti to ni reći, mada ima ljudi kojima je to mnogo bitno, ti ćeš to osjetiti.

A lijepo kaže pjesma, Ljubav je samo riječ...

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by BJB » 27/07/2011 16:07

bemmumisha, samo sam se salila..
Inace, da se vratim na temu, mislim da dosta ljudi rijetko govore drugima da ih vole, ne samo partnerima, vec i roditeljima, djeci itd...Pa ako je taj neko bitan postavljacici teme nesposoban izraziti kroz rijeci svoja osjecanja onda mu ona moze lijepo reci da ga voli, i ako joj on uzvrati da i on nju voli, reci mu da se ne stidi ponoviti to cesce jer njoj eto puno znaci..
Ja sam od ovih sto bi vise voljela iskazivanje ljubavi djelima, pokloni, usisavanje, i slicno. :D

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Post by plejka2 » 27/07/2011 16:10

Aminaaa wrote:Zanima me da li muškarac zaista voli svoju partnerku, iako joj to ne govori, da li to zaista osjeća. Da li je to manjak samopouzdanja, il´ pak ljubavi?!

ma jok

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by Aminaaa » 27/07/2011 16:12

BJB wrote:bemmumisha, samo sam se salila..
Inace, da se vratim na temu, mislim da dosta ljudi rijetko govore drugima da ih vole, ne samo partnerima, vec i roditeljima, djeci itd...Pa ako je taj neko bitan postavljacici teme nesposoban izraziti kroz rijeci svoja osjecanja onda mu ona moze lijepo reci da ga voli, i ako joj on uzvrati da i on nju voli, reci mu da se ne stidi ponoviti to cesce jer njoj eto puno znaci..
Ja sam od ovih sto bi vise voljela iskazivanje ljubavi djelima, pokloni, usisavanje, i slicno. :D



Iz mojih usta je više puta mogao čuti volim te, ali ja iz njegovih nikada. Sve je to nešto "okolo kole". Što se tiče ovog iskazivanja ljubavi djelima, poklonima, usisavanje, i sl., to zaista ne manjka. Haha :)

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by cucamonga » 27/07/2011 16:16

jos jedna potvrda da zene vole istinite lazi i lazne istine :mrgreen:

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by Cholina_Lokica » 27/07/2011 16:35

Zar je nekome bitnije sta neko kaze, nego kako se ponasa

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Re: Da li on voli iako to ne govori?

Post by juli84 » 27/07/2011 16:39

Ma moze on biti najpazljiviji na svijetu al ako ni jednom ne izgovori to famozno volim te onda nista od toga.

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