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#1 Turkish girl with a Bosnian boy?
Posted: 12/05/2007 16:18
by Esra_tr
Hi, I'm Esra, I live in the Netherlands but I'm Turkish.
I've a boyfriend who's Bosnian.
Will his parents accept a Turkish girl? (My boyfriend and I are by the way Muslim...)
I hope you can answer my question in English..
Hvala

#2
Posted: 12/05/2007 16:21
by Maksim
I´m sure they will. Bosnians aren´t national-conservative like Turks. I live in Austria and I know some Turkish people here. Since I know, those who are not Turkish have bad chances with Turkish klix

#3
Posted: 12/05/2007 16:23
by prleitihi
dont vori..reis sed..aj can not si difrns bitvin boznian muslim and turkiš!

#4
Posted: 12/05/2007 16:25
by GandalfSivi
prleitihi wrote:dont vori..reis sed..aj can not si difrns bitvin boznian muslim and turkiš!

Kretenu, hahahahahahahaha
#5
Posted: 12/05/2007 16:25
by Sogan
depenz on jur pita-skils

#6
Posted: 12/05/2007 16:27
by Esra_tr
prleitihi wrote:dont vori..reis sed..aj can not si difrns bitvin boznian muslim and turki¹!

Yes, there are no differences, but you never know how parents will react
And Maksim, thank you for your answer

#7
Posted: 12/05/2007 16:46
by bauhaus
but esra,
how would your parents react, you with a bosnian guy ?
my impression is that the turks are very conservative, closed and do not accept mixed relationships. am i wrong ?
#8
Posted: 12/05/2007 16:49
by ed0
Maak je niet druk. Waarschijnlijk geven zijn ouders er geen zak om. Succes!!!
#9
Posted: 12/05/2007 16:51
by maccarona
#10
Posted: 12/05/2007 16:57
by uozo
bauhaus wrote:but esra,
how would your parents react, you with a bosnian guy ?
my impression is that the turks are very conservative, closed and do not accept mixed relationships. am i wrong ?
Damn interesting question! From my own experience, I know very well, that the turks don"t accept mixed relationship. You are not wrong. My first marriage with a turkish girl didn"t work just because they never accepted that she was with me, and on the end they managed to destroy our relationship!

#11
Posted: 12/05/2007 17:04
by Abu FEED el-Castro
#12
Posted: 12/05/2007 17:06
by Esra_tr
bauhaus wrote:but esra,
how would your parents react, you with a bosnian guy ?
my impression is that the turks are very conservative, closed and do not accept mixed relationships. am i wrong ?
No you aren't wrong. Turks accept it when a boy marries a girl who isn't Turkish.
It's a bigger problem when a klix want to marry a not-Turk.
But he is a Muslim, so I don't think my parents will be angry or something...
#13
Posted: 12/05/2007 17:07
by Esra_tr
ed0 wrote:Maak je niet druk. Waarschijnlijk geven zijn ouders er geen zak om. Succes!!!
Haha dankje dat je zo positief reageert

#14
Posted: 12/05/2007 17:12
by Maksim
Djaba ti takva niska ulizavanja, p***e ti sigurno nece dati
#15
Posted: 12/05/2007 17:40
by Esra_tr
Yes you're right but I know a lot of people from Bosnia and Herzegovina who hate Turkey..
Djaba ti takva niska ulizavanja, p***e ti sigurno nece dati
I don't know what you are saying, but I think it's something negative about Turkey. But I want to learn Bosnian so maybe I will ever know what you've said

#16
Posted: 12/05/2007 17:45
by A.i.d.A..
my problem is just the other way around
i'm bosnian and he is turkish
and actually it IS a problem
#17
Posted: 12/05/2007 17:48
by cHupjahalic@
Esra_tr wrote:Yes you're right but I know a lot of people from Bosnia and Herzegovina who hate Turkey..
did you mean "don`t like"?
#18
Posted: 12/05/2007 17:48
by zlata
prleitihi wrote:dont vori..reis sed..aj can not si difrns bitvin boznian muslim and turkiš!

Svi smo mi Turci!

Yeah....tell your parents that Bosnians are Turkish too......

"Closet Turks".

#19
Posted: 12/05/2007 17:49
by BuFu
Hi Esra
I know of 2 Bosnian guys that married turkish klix and the klix parents were happy with that

This is the first time I heard that Turks have a problem with Bosnians. Good luck

#20
Posted: 12/05/2007 18:00
by Esra_tr
cHupjahalic@ wrote:Esra_tr wrote:Yes you're right but I know a lot of people from Bosnia and Herzegovina who hate Turkey..
did you mean "don`t like"?
There are people who really hate Turks. But maybe it was better to say: don't like
A.i.d.A.. wrote:my problem is just the other way around
i'm bosnian and he is turkish
and actually it IS a problem
Wow, his parents are very nationalistic, I suppose
Good luck, girl
BuFu wrote:Hi Esra
I know of 2 Bosnian guys that married turkish klix and the klix parents were happy with that Smile This is the first time I heard that Turks have a problem with Bosnians. Good luck Smile
Hi
I'm happy to hear that 2 of your friends are married with Turkish klix
Actually, my family haven't problems with Bosnians
But I don't know of my boyfriends' parents like Turks...

#21
Posted: 12/05/2007 18:11
by A.i.d.A..
Wow, his parents are very nationalistic, I suppose Surprised
Good luck, girl Very Happy
my parents are the problem!

#22
Posted: 12/05/2007 18:17
by Esra_tr
A.i.d.A.. wrote: Wow, his parents are very nationalistic, I suppose Surprised
Good luck, girl Very Happy
my parents are the problem!

What is their reaction?
#23
Posted: 12/05/2007 18:24
by A.i.d.A..
Esra_tr wrote:A.i.d.A.. wrote: Wow, his parents are very nationalistic, I suppose Surprised
Good luck, girl Very Happy
my parents are the problem!

What is their reaction?
they are not happy, and they think we wont have a happy life together. they wish him to be bosnian. and beside all of that here live many turks and they know their bad behaviours.
right now he is in Manisa near Izmir
#24
Posted: 12/05/2007 18:24
by Eshek
aaa, esra, canim...
aj hev sam ekspiriens vid bosnian - turkiš rilejšons...perents not a problem, bat anadolu vimen big problem
det is vaj aj hev nau grlfrend from skandinevija
end maj vimen vil kil mi ven ši riids dis post

#25
Posted: 12/05/2007 18:26
by Eshek
PasoDzigera007 wrote:prleitihi wrote:dont vori..reis sed..aj can not si difrns bitvin boznian muslim and turkiš!

ni ja nevidim razliku izmedju srpkinje i turkinje,posto su vam turci 500 godina jebavali mame,pa se tako izradjale turkinjice-srpkinjice.
IZGLEDA DA NA VAS U LAKTASIMA DOBRO UTICE SELJO DODARA DODIK SEOSKI PJEVAC!
đigera, đigera, meni se čini da ćeš jedino ti biti jeban ovdje, kad stigne zumke
