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Turkish girl with a Bosnian boy?
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- Saian
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#54
auuuuuuuu sta je ono tamo bilo auuuuuu klesh pravi i to oko sisa i guzicamaccarona wrote:vidim bila si opet u svom elementudanas wrote:ne pitaj nistamaccarona wrote: ko ba zatvori temu "striptiz klub"?i nas ce sad ziik ziik...
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Esra_tr
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#57
Hahahahamaccarona wrote:I Love Döneris very good
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And I love Zeljanica
I hope you're rightDon't wory. They shouldn't have any problem with Turkish girl. Maybe strange feeling in communication but otherwise - shouldn't be a problem. That is a general idea - they still could be some nuts and have problem with it![]()
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JokYouAre
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#63
Hello
Well, Bosnian people as well as all the people tend to be closed minded and less tolerant, and that is normal, especially for those that have never met people from other countries. I guess that is not problem in this case, since his paretnts are in Netherland (i assume). Anyway I don't think you should mind about that. We live in 2007 in a pretty much globalized world and factors like colour, religion, nationality, etc. should not matter. What you should focus on, is your relationship. If they don't accept you, there is obviously something wrong with them.
I know that in many cases (people I know), normal parrents (Bosnian) never minded where sons/daughters girl/boyfriend is from.
Good Luck and you should visit Bosnia soon
Well, Bosnian people as well as all the people tend to be closed minded and less tolerant, and that is normal, especially for those that have never met people from other countries. I guess that is not problem in this case, since his paretnts are in Netherland (i assume). Anyway I don't think you should mind about that. We live in 2007 in a pretty much globalized world and factors like colour, religion, nationality, etc. should not matter. What you should focus on, is your relationship. If they don't accept you, there is obviously something wrong with them.
I know that in many cases (people I know), normal parrents (Bosnian) never minded where sons/daughters girl/boyfriend is from.
Good Luck and you should visit Bosnia soon
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Esra_tr
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#64
@JokYouAre
Yes, and I think that there aren't differences between me and my boyfriend.
Ok, he's Bosnian, but he can speak Turkish and he is Muslim. So I don't see a problem.
But I know a Dutch girl with a Bosnian boy, and his parents hate that girl because she has a different nationality. That is the reason that I'm frightened.
Yes, and I think that there aren't differences between me and my boyfriend.
Ok, he's Bosnian, but he can speak Turkish and he is Muslim. So I don't see a problem.
But I know a Dutch girl with a Bosnian boy, and his parents hate that girl because she has a different nationality. That is the reason that I'm frightened.
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BuFu
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#65
Esra_tr wrote:@JokYouAre
Yes, and I think that there aren't differences between me and my boyfriend.
Ok, he's Bosnian, but he can speak Turkish and he is Muslim. So I don't see a problem.
But I know a Dutch girl with a Bosnian boy, and his parents hate that girl because she has a different nationality. That is the reason that I'm frightened.
Don't compare apples to oranges. If that Dutch girl is not Muslim it does make a difference if he is Muslim. The word hate is a little harsh, they may not be too happy that he is with someone of a different religion but I don't think they hate her if they know their son is happy and if she's a decent girl. It's also a little different when a Muslim guy marries a non muslim than when a Muslim girl decides to marry a non muslim guy. Both you and your boyfriend are Muslim and thats the most impoetant thing, and if your parents follow Islam you shouldn't have a problem regarding nationality or race.
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_stoKA_
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#66
esra :
No you aren't wrong. Turks accept it when a boy marries a girl who isn't Turkish.
It's a bigger problem when a klix want to marry a not-Turk.
But he is a Muslim, so I don't think my parents will be angry or something...
well, u c, in turkiye marriage with other femes is totaly cool, as we like to say "in". if one macho-turko has no russian feme he is no more macho, just turko. and u are sth as "ashamed" to be what u are. what a strange nation...
No you aren't wrong. Turks accept it when a boy marries a girl who isn't Turkish.
It's a bigger problem when a klix want to marry a not-Turk.
But he is a Muslim, so I don't think my parents will be angry or something...
well, u c, in turkiye marriage with other femes is totaly cool, as we like to say "in". if one macho-turko has no russian feme he is no more macho, just turko. and u are sth as "ashamed" to be what u are. what a strange nation...
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istanbul sonbahar
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#68
hey esra, i wanted to tell u, that i know how u feel. but also, that shouldn't be a problem, at least u r not gonna live with his parents. the most important thing is that two of u r good together, and that's all that matters. just go ahead, im totally on ur side, and i hope u ll be happy, happy, happy.
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#69
eto prilike da zamijenite havere!istanbul sonbahar wrote:hey esra, i wanted to tell u, that i know how u feel. but also, that shouldn't be a problem, at least u r not gonna live with his parents. the most important thing is that two of u r good together, and that's all that matters. just go ahead, im totally on ur side, and i hope u ll be happy, happy, happy.
@esracığım valla ailen MHPli diilse sorun olmiyacak, bisimkiler asla sorun çıkarmas...
güle güle
- Prozor
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#70 Re: Turkish girl with a Bosnian boy?
Bosnians oftenly don´t have any problems with Turks, actually they realy like them. Of course there are nationalists but becuse you are Muslim I don´t think it´s such a big problem. Bosnians are definitly not nationalists, and if they are, it´s mostly against Serbs and Croats and rarely against other Muslims specielly Turks.Esra_tr wrote:Hi, I'm Esra, I live in the Netherlands but I'm Turkish.
I've a boyfriend who's Bosnian.
Will his parents accept a Turkish girl? (My boyfriend and I are by the way Muslim...)
I hope you can answer my question in English..
Hvala
Btw, Turkish klix are hot
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Zhaba
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#71 Re: Turkish girl with a Bosnian boy?
ne lazi curuProzor wrote:Bosnians oftenly don´t have any problems with Turks, actually they realy like them. Of course there are nationalists but becuse you are Muslim I don´t think it´s such a big problem. Bosnians are definitly not nationalists, and if they are, it´s mostly against Serbs and Croats and rarely against other Muslims specielly Turks.Esra_tr wrote:Hi, I'm Esra, I live in the Netherlands but I'm Turkish.
I've a boyfriend who's Bosnian.
Will his parents accept a Turkish girl? (My boyfriend and I are by the way Muslim...)
I hope you can answer my question in English..
Hvala
Btw, Turkish klix are hot
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#73
döner yokmaccarona wrote:uh sto bih ja sad jedan döner![]()
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-direktor-
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#74
ask his parrents and give them mounthly a 2 000 $ then never be a any problems.
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Esra_tr
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#75 Re: Turkish girl with a Bosnian boy?
Oeeh.. thanksProzor wrote:Btw, Turkish klix are hot
I guess you're turkish too? and i'm happy to hear that you're on our sideistanbul sonbahar wrote:hey esra, i wanted to tell u, that i know how u feel. but also, that shouldn't be a problem, at least u r not gonna live with his parents. the most important thing is that two of u r good together, and that's all that matters. just go ahead, im totally on ur side, and i hope u ll be happy, happy, happy.
Hayir, ailem solcu, merak etmeBosanac sa dna kace wrote:@esracığım valla ailen MHPli diilse sorun olmiyacak, bisimkiler asla sorun çıkarmas...
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