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goga+ wrote:Sanjala sam san, koji nisam ispričala dragom. Zašto bih, kad ni meni nije baš jasno što sam ga sanjala, a kako će tek on to da protumači. Bio je seks sa ženom. Znam da mi u snu nije bila poznata, mada joj nisam ni videla lik, jedino dugu kosu i nežne ruke. Ja ništa nisam morala da se trudim, samo da se prepustim. Neobično mi je da je bilo lepo. Prelepo u stvari. Kad sam se probudila samo sam htela da opet spavam i sanjam isti san. Nije mi uspelo.

Čitala sam da psiholozi kažu da to ne znači promenu seksualne orjentacuje, već nezadovoljstvo na seksualnom planu. Ako je to tačno i ako uzmem u obzir koliko mi je bilo lepo u snu ispada da sam mnogo nezadovoljna. Seks u snovima, brige na javi. Šta da radim? Kako da menjam javu? Da li uopšte da je menjam? Da li ste vi imali slične snove? Kažu da ih muškarci, zbog hormona testosterona, imaju češće, ali da žene češće u snu dožive vrhunac.

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Sexual dreams

Written by Dr David Delvin, GP and family planning specialist and Christine Webber, psychotherapist and lifecoach

Even in this sexually ‘open’ age, people are often worried because they've had dreams with a sexual content. In particular, it can be very disturbing if, in a dream, you do something that would be totally shocking for you in real life! For instance, a woman who leads an extremely chaste and respectable life may be troubled by dreams in which she has rampaging sex with dozens of handsome males.

Similarly, a man who prides himself on being 'straight' and who actually dislikes homosexuals, may be quite shattered to find that he has dreams in which he is engaging in sexual fondling with some good-looking guy!

However, a lot of people are not disturbed by their sexual dreams and simply enjoy them for what they are. This is normally the best attitude to take.

Why do we have sexual dreams?

We dream because of the intense activity that is constantly going on in our subconscious minds. And since sex is one of the most powerful of all human drives, it's not surprising that so many dreams have a strong sexual content.

If we have deep urges to do certain things, they are highly likely to come out in our dreams - where our consciences cannot prevent them happening.

But isn't it true that our consciences 'censor' sexy dreams?

Yes. The mind has something called a 'dream censor', which tends to 'clean up' dreams.

So, if a person who has a very strict puritanical outlook starts to have a sexy dream, their dream censor may alter that dream so that very 'rude' things are replaced by symbols.

Thus, a man of strict sexual morals may have a deep, unconscious desire to have sex with beautiful women. Instead of dreaming about vaginas, he will keep dreaming about tunnels and subways. Instead of dreaming about breasts he will dream about pleasant hillocks and mounds - and so on.

Similarly, a woman whose sexual morality is very strict won't dream of penises. Instead, she'll dream of penile symbols, like:


church spires


rockets


cigars


tall chimneys.


However, in our experience, this kind of 'dream symbolism' seems to be less common than it used to be. People are less 'hung up' than they were a generation or so ago - which is why they tend to dream about explicit sex, rather than symbols.

Do people have orgasms in dreams?

Definitely! Women don't do this very often, but it does happen - especially at times when they're 'highly charged' sexually.

When we were writing our book The Big 'O' (Hodder: 1995), a sizeable number of women reported to us that their first ever orgasm was in a dream.

However, it's more common for women just to get very excited during a dream - and then to wake up on the brink of orgasm and 'finish themselves off' by self-stroking.

What about men?

Most males (though not all) have many erotic dreams in their teens, 20s and 30s. The frequency of these dreams tends to get less with age, but a lot of sexually-charged males continue to experience pleasant erotic dreams far into their 60s and 70s.

In men, erotic dreams are very commonly 'wet dreams' - in other words, ones in which the guy reaches orgasm and ejaculates.

This can be quite an embarrassment for a young man, especially if he keeps on staining the sheets. But there is nothing that can be done to stop wet dreams. If stains are a problem, it's not a bad idea to wear shorts in bed.

However, in the case of very young males who produce large quantities of semen, staining of the sheets is almost impossible to avoid. Sleeping on a really thick towel may be helpful.

Are wet dreams harmful?

A lot of young men who are of Asian extraction believe that they are. They have been told – often by friends – that loss of semen weakens the body or shortens one’s life. But this is quite untrue. Wet dreams are just the body's natural response to its hormones - much as periods occur in women.

What should you do about disturbing sex dreams?

Most sex dreams are fun, and should just be enjoyed. Sometimes they involve activities that you may feel you'd never get up to in real life - like lesbianism or homosexuality. But this doesn't matter.

However, some people do get very distressing sex dreams - about such disturbing subjects as incest, violence or rape. If this keeps on happening to you, then there must be some psychological reason behind it.

If you are upset by these dreams, and you want to find out the reason for them, then it would be best to consult a therapist. Traditionally, those therapists with analytic backgrounds have been more in tune with - and experienced in - people's dream worlds. But some hypnotherapists are adept at helping a person gain control of their dreams by 're-designing' them during hypnosis so that they end differently and are therefore less disturbing.

There are two articles on this site that will help if you want to find a suitable therapist.


Who to go to for sex therapy.


Private therapy.


Dreams of love

Sometimes people have dreams where they are being taken care of, or loved very deeply, or cuddled - dreams that are not overtly sexual but which leave the dreamer feeling very drawn to the person in the dream who was being so affectionate.

These dreams can leave an individual feeling very shaken up and confused because often the 'love interest' in the dream is not a regular partner.

In our experience, these dreams can tell us a great deal. We believe that they are often there as some manifestation that all is not entirely well with our current situation. They often express a hankering for a loving experience that is absent from a marriage or long-term relationship.

If you have this kind of dream and feel disturbed by it, you may want to see a relationship therapist to explore why you are having these dreams.

Of course we all have dreams in which incongruous things happen with people we are not attached to in real life, but when these dreams haunt our waking moments through the next day and beyond, it is wise to take note of the possible message behind them.

ludacha wrote:dobro jutro!

uopce ne pridajem nikakvu vaznost snovima. ako su lijepi, ugodni, citav dan, nekad i dva-tri (zavisi od intenzteta) su odlicni i ispunjeni nekim spešl filingom. ako mi se ne dopadaju, najcesce ih vrlo brzo zaboravim, osim ako nisu bas potresni.

sto te zabrinjava san o sexu sa zenom? jesi ikad sanjala neku kompletnu fantaziju, koja nema ama nikakvo uporiste u stvarnosti niti bi se tako kako mudro protumaciti? jesi i tad pokretala temu na forumu? (deder da vidim)

majko draga, da vjerujem u te stvari i drzim ih bitnima, vjerojatno bih se nasla u ludnici ili ne bih izlazila iz kuce - a ukucane bih privezala negdje da su mi na oku

sanjex wrote:E ti si u pravu, jer da ima nešto više od uživanja u snovima, ja bih prva naj... . Jednom sam sanjala da sam se pretvorila u pepeljaru i da sam se zakotrljala niz ulicu i gledam ja tim svojim pepeljarskim očima kako se sve obrće e tog se sna još sjećam a davno ga sanjala. Jučer sam sanala da sam prodala auto a brat to jutro zove i kaze doće ti taj i taj pa otiđite do opštine da prevedeš auto ha? Možda sam i vidovita.

sanjex wrote:E ti si u pravu, jer da ima nešto više od uživanja u snovima, ja bih prva naj... . Jednom sam sanjala da sam se pretvorila u pepeljaru i da sam se zakotrljala niz ulicu i gledam ja tim svojim pepeljarskim očima kako se sve obrće e tog se sna još sjećam a davno ga sanjala. Jučer sam sanala da sam prodala auto a brat to jutro zove i kaze doće ti taj i taj pa otiđite do opštine da prevedeš auto ha? Možda sam i vidovita.

sanjex wrote:Može biti, oduvjek sam htjela da bidnem princeza , haman mi se nešto poremetilo u glavi pa se pretvorih u pepeljaru.
Dobro je pa nije nešto gore, poput WC šolje

SanYava wrote:Ove ovdje žene sanjale žene, a ja crnca
Ne zezam se, naprotiv - nakon sna sam bila kao mamurna
Naime, sanjala sam da čekam autobus, ne obični, nego za stranstvo (kako mi je samo to palo na pamet),
i pored mene je stajao neki visoki crnac.
Lice mu samo vidim još kroz maglu, ali se sjećam da je bio u nekim bijelim farmerkama u kojima mu se "muškina ( )" jako oslikavala da sam neprestano gledala u "njega" i on u mene ( )
Kad smo ulazili u autobus, najednom sam se našla u toaletu sa njim, i nismo vršili nužde
Počeo me je skidati, i ja njega i tada smo započeli "njihalicu"
Za čudo divno, ja sma bila na njemu umjesto on na meni.
Sve se odvijalo tako brzo da je to bilo nevjerojatno.
U jednom trenutku njegove ruke su mrsile moje duge lokne i dirale me po usnama, a u drugom ja sam razmišljala o tome kako je ovo samo san i da ništa loše ne može da se desi.
Ubrzo sma se probudila, kosa i tijelo su mi bili mokri, od znoja, tako da je postelja odmah na pranju završila kao i ja
Kasnije sma to pričala jednoj ženi koja tumači snove, rekla mi je da crna boja označava žalost, a da ću je ja uzjahati
Nisam joj vjerovala, i tog ljeta sma završila u bolnici.
Operacija slijepog crijeva.
Da sam došla dan kasnije, bila bih mrtva.
Na svu sreću, ožiljka nije ostalo, ali nosim ožiljak na grudima.Često se zapitam da ne posjedujem kojim slučajem ono "treće oko", ali mi djeluje previše SF, pa samo zakolutam očima

PS. Sad sam čitala nešto o ispovjestima, što završava "Kada ste se posljednji puta ispovjedali?" tako da sam se "otvorila"

sffovac wrote:
god damn girl, mozda nisi ni svjesna, al' samo nacin na koji pises ...
ako upola izgledas ko sto pises, onaj dedo s unucima mi je kristalno jasan

jel i ovo trebalo na tramvajske zgode il' se meni cini

goga+ wrote:Muškarci samo čitaju, a ne pišu o svojim sexi snovima. Interesuje me kakvi su im snovi. Znam da o njima ne pričaju u ženskom društvu, a pretpostavljam da ne pričaju ni u muškom. O onome što im se dešava na javi rado pričaju frendsovima. Možda grešim?

Libido wrote:Veeeeelika greska.

d2 wrote:ja sam sanjao kako se jebem biciklom po bjelasnici, ne znam jel to spada u sexi snove ?