kakve to veze s vjekom ima???JokYouAre wrote:PS. Citajuci ove postove, nemogu da vjerujem koliko vjerovatno mladje raje daje religiju toliku vaznost sto se partnera tice. Meni licno to pripada u srednjem vjeku!! Posebno me iznenadjuje da to sve dolazi sa strane ljudi koji su vjerovatno nastanjeni u dijaspori u sarolikim sredinama. Zalosno!!!!!!!!
Can't belive how many young people on this forum give importance to religion when it commes to pertners. That is just sad and belongs to the medieval times. And it suprises me most that mosto of that thinking are comming from people living abroad in multinational and multiethnic surroundings!!!!!! SAD!!
Turkish girl with a Bosnian boy?
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FYI, in Bosnia we have a very old tradition called "Crnogorski kum." It is very old and "must, just do it tradition" based on friendship and respect.
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please don't translate a single word to your BF, he might think that he was born in a very strange country
just do it...who cares, at least you guys should not think about that, bosnians, turks, dutch, africans, canadians, armenians... ups, did I say Armenians
...love is all that matters
just do it...who cares, at least you guys should not think about that, bosnians, turks, dutch, africans, canadians, armenians... ups, did I say Armenians
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#103 Turkish girl with a Bosnian boy?
Esra I've been living in İstabul for the last 3 years, and I still haven't figured these people out. As far as I could understand it, most of the turkish people are ''geri zekali'', and all of my bosnian friends that also live here agree with me. None of my Bosnian friends in turkey is going out with a turkish girl, oh there is one, sorry. Bosnian and Turkish people are too different from each other so these bosnian-turkish relations don't work out. But I am sure you are not censervative as these people here, you live in Holland. so I think there will be no problems in your relationship 
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hajd' fako ne sviraj kurcu .... i ne mjesaj ljubavni problem nase gosce sa talijanskim anti-fudbalom
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Yes my friend, exactly this is anno 2007 as you said yourself. Religion did not matter before the war as much as it matters today, and those mixed marriages that you are talking about are from the period before the war. Mixed religious marriages were very common, but not anymore.JokYouAre wrote:Daj ba jarane sto se provaljujes. I don't think that religion matter so much as this guy states. By fact you have most mixed (between religions) marriages in Bosnia in whole region. Come on this is anno 2007 and forget about this primitive thinking. Reason for not liking that Dutch girl might be that Bosnians tend to be closed for something new or strange (to them)!!Vrbaslija-BL wrote:Esra I don't think you should have any worries in that respect. The reason why those parents don't like Dutch girl is not because she is different nationality but most likely because she is not muslim.
Bosnians are in vast majority absolutely not nationalistic. It's the religion that matters a lot to most Bosnians. If you are muslim I believe you will be very welcome in his family regardless of your nationality. And by the way if there is nationality that Bosnians are fond of, it is definitely Turkish. So it should be a plus for you not a minus.
I wish you the best luck and success in your marriage
Hey, can you tell us how the meeting with the parrents turns out??
You probabily still live in 70's or 80's. And by the way, I have nothing against other religions. On the contrary. I respect them. But respecting other religions does not mean you necessarily need to marry them.
And regardless to what you think, reality is that religion matters the most to Bosnians today. Maybe not before the war, but it does now. For my family it mattered before the war too, and I am glad that others realized that.
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#106 Re: Turkish girl with a Bosnian boy?
Hahaha, you're really funnySERBE wrote:Esra I've been living in İstabul for the last 3 years, and I still haven't figured these people out. As far as I could understand it, most of the turkish people are ''geri zekali''
( and I'm not sarcastic, its for real)
But why are you living in Istanbul, if you don't like the people?
Wow, now I'm surprised..StLouis wrote:FYI, in Bosnia we have a very old tradition called "Crnogorski kum." It is very old and "must, just do it tradition" based on friendship and respect![]()
. joke Very Happy please don't translate a single word to your BF, he might think that he was born in a very strange country
You aren't gossiping, are you?
Biz belki carsaflilara karsiyiz, ama onlardan nefret etmiyoruz elbette. Ve ayrica hic bir Bosnali carsafli birini gormedim suana kadar.. Varmi bilmiyorum.Bosanac sa dna kace wrote:peki onlarda çarºaflı ya da türbanlı biri olsa?
Haha olurhadzironaldo wrote:merak etme esra güzel bir baklava veya kadayif yapin,onlar seni sevecekler...türk boshnak aynidir...
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i don't know, maybe i'm naive, but i think, as long as these two young people get along well, it is whether important what nationality they have, nor what they believe in. i dunno, we are determined by so many kinds of differentiation today, i sometimes have slight difficulties getting all the criteria. 
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jel to sad neko pokusava da na subtilan nacin kontaminira ovu bosansko-tursko-englesku diskusiju nekim njemackim pojmovima?
*joj, ja nisam ni primjetila, da se ova skoljka belji... sorry.
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inhaltliche ili sprachliche sranje?maccarona wrote:neko mora sabotirati ovo sranjemrs. zurbrigen wrote:maccarona wrote:aj froschi, sikadim sikadim![]()
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jel to sad neko pokusava da na subtilan nacin kontaminira ovu bosansko-tursko-englesku diskusiju nekim njemackim pojmovima?![]()
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e ja, to je decko od moje cimerke. fin momak, nema sta. nadamo se da ce je zenit, vrijeme bi bilo...BuFu wrote:maccarona wrote:kursumlara gelesin![]()
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mrs. zurbrigen wrote:e ja, to je decko od moje cimerke. fin momak, nema sta. nadamo se da ce je zenit, vrijeme bi bilo...BuFu wrote:maccarona wrote:kursumlara gelesin![]()
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Vidjela sam ga na koncertu Beslica u De, i on je pjevao
